Sexual Communication:
Making It Work & Getting What You Want In Your Romantic Relationships

Most people feel some anxiety around these conversations. And that anxiety is sourced from a fear of loss, fear of looking stupid, fear of rejection, fear of making things worse...

And that fear is what could make your communication come across as needy, or manipulative, or annoying, or worst of all: That fear could make you clam up and just not even try.

And not even trying is the most common choice-- which sucks, because how are you going to get what you want out of romantic relationships that way?

Like the say in sports: “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”

When it comes to Sexual Communication, it seems like there are a thousand ways to get it wrong at every step:

When I was younger, I was always getting Sexual Communication wrong, or I'd just freeze because I just didn't have a clue what to say or do when it came to these situations. And so I know, first hand, just how bad things can get:

I was LONELY, I felt unloved, unwanted, and depressed.

I didn't know it was a communication problem, I just thought I was ugly... or that there was just something about me that women found repulsive.

I had some female friends, but oddly they seemed clueless about how to help me. I asked for help, and I think they really felt badly for me, but they just repeated cliches that hadn’t ever worked for me.

They told me I was a great guy and that girls that rejected me were crazy. It felt like the things my mother used to say to me when someone didn’t want to be my friend in second grade. It just made me feel worse.

I also felt POWERLESS because there were so many times and so many situations, especially when I was in college where social gatherings were happening all the time, where I was just completely impotent to get what I wanted.

The social environment just felt like this fast moving current that threw me around while I flailed about trying to get a hold of something... anything... but just ended up drowning every time.

And ultimately I felt like a LOSER. There was a part of me that couldn't make sense of why... that just didn't understand what the rules of the game were about, much less how to be a good player.

I saw other people with girlfriends and boyfriends, I saw people hooking up, I saw people that looked happy, but I was that person who just could not seem to catch a break.

Eventually I got into my first relationship, and then my second, because most humans are terrible at this stuff, and most of us manage to accident into some luck eventually. Everyone is someone’s type and it turns out that women will, in fact, put up with a lot of groan-worthy mistakes if they think you’re a good guy…

But if you haven’t figured this stuff out in your single life (which I hadn't), the same insecurities come back and plague your relationship. You still don’t have the tools or the courage to make your relationship work the way you want it to.

And the relationship falls apart. Usually painfully.

I'd like to tell you at this point that I had a sudden breakthrough that solved EVERYTHING for me... but closer to the truth is that I had many breakthroughs, which each seemed like ground-breaking downloads from the Universe at the time.

Each of these breakthroughs made my life much, much better...

But you live and you learn, and life is always throwing something new at you, and I stumbled my way from figuring out sex and dating issues, to relationship issues, to marriage issues across decades... each time spending years of suffering and exploring before having big breakthroughs.

Ultimately the most important breakthrough was figuring out that my breakthroughs weren't personal, they were UNIVERSAL.

That's when I started writing books and creating programs that helped many other men, women, and couples skip the years of crap that I went through, and learn directly from my mistakes and insights.

One big insight from doing this professionally that dramatically changed the way I think about this stuff, is that these breakthroughs weren't just applicable to other men... Women were experiencing all of these same issues.

The common wisdom is that men and women are from different planets when it comes to relationships, sex, and communication.

Not true.

Let me show you exactly what I mean...

Two weeks ago, when I first decided it was time to do a program on Sexual Communication, I sent out a survey to my readers asking them what their biggest challenge in this area was. You may have seen it. You may have even answered it.

Here is a tiny sample of a few of the responses I got:

"It's the things we don't... or can't talk about..."

"I want to feel like there is a connection that goes beyond just intimacy"

"Whenever I try to have the relationship become “exclusive”, I feel like I make it too formal"

"Fear that the other person won't be accepting of what I want or will outright reject it, and then where do we go from there?"

"Changing direction when a pattern or expectation has already been established and wanting to try out something new"

"Getting my partner to open up more about wants and desires"

"Asking for what I really want sexually instead of just waiting/hoping that my partner will do it"

"Communicating problems while not pushing the other person away"

"I don't know how to make the 1st move"

"Confidence, feeling like I am worthy"

It might surprise you to know that they are exactly 50/50, but more importantly, I could have found examples of each of these issues, such that I could have made it all men or all women in my examples.

The men and the women had exactly the same set of issues.

That's right fellas, women constantly ask me about how to make the first move and how to get out of the friend zone.

That's right ladies, men constantly ask me how to talk about moving from casually dating to a committed relationship, and how to have more intimate communication with a partner that doesn't like to talk about "emotional stuff."

Of course different individuals have different important issues at different times in their lives. You may just have one of these. But when you take women and men as big groups and look at all of their issues?

It's all the same.

And ultimately the biggest insight that I've discovered is that all of the smaller hurdles that I've learned to get good at along the way, each of which I've created trainings around, can ALL be solved with just one principle.

And in case it's not obvious, that principle is Sexual Communication.

Communication between humans is, frankly, hard enough.

Even with all of the rules and laws around driving, even with traffic lights, double yellow lines, and careful signage, people still manage to crash into each other...

But once you take away the law book of "rules of the road," and then trigger people's deepest insecurities and feelings of inadequacy, and then add the element of sexual polarity into the mix...

Well, is it any wonder most people have no idea how to get what they want in romantic relationships?

That's why I decided to create a program on Sexual Communication, and that's why I'm inviting you to join me while I create it.

The truth is: I don't have all of the answers. No one does.

But I've got a specific and repeatable method for communicating with the opposite sex so that you can:

Sound good?

Here's my plan:

I'm going to teach this program live across the next several weeks. Each week you'll get a new piece of the training for you to watch, digest, and try out in your real life.

Each component will build on the previous lesson, and then every week I'll host a Q&A webinar where you can ask your specific questions, report on obstacles or issues you've had with the training, and get specific input and advice on your specific issues and problems.

There is a TON of added value for showing up to these calls and getting YOUR SPECIFIC ISSUES handled live, and I hope you'll join for some or even all of those live calls... But either way, you'll get all of the lessons and all of the recorded Q&A sessions as we go along.

And then once everything is edited and I've added summaries, transcripts, and complementary training materials, you'll get lifetime access to the finished product.

Here's how important I think this subject is:

I want to make sure you join me for this training, and I'm so committed to you getting access to it, that I've decided to make the tuition, "name your own price."

Once the program is recorded and added to the catalog I will price it somewhere between $97 and $197 ($147 is usually the “Goldilocks” sweet spot for this kind of program)...

But I fully recognize that while some portion of my audience will fight through a crowd to pay me $197 for this training, I also have a lot of readers for whom that is a serious investment, or even unaffordable in the current economy.

So I'm just going to make it a simple "honor system" arrangement, and trust that the vast majority of my readers are not going to try to rip me off. I have found that nearly every one of my customers has been extremely respectful of the value of what I do, so...

I trust you

Name your own price. Whatever feels affordable and right for you at this time. No questions asked.

If you'd like to give more than the $147 suggested price as a "tip" or appreciation for my continued work, THANK YOU, and I want you to rest assured that you will still be getting far more than your money's worth, as you would likely pay thousands in therapy or couple's counseling to get the information in this training.

Choose your price here:

Then click here, fill in your payment details on the next page, and you're in!

And, yes, of course, just in case this turns out to be different than what you were hoping for, or even if you just change your mind... as with everything I sell, you have a 60-day money-back guarantee.

I hope to see your name in the program! I know that what I am going to be teaching in this course has the power to radically and instantly improve the results that you get when it comes to love, sex, relationships, romance, and interacting comfortably and effectively in your relationships.

For Passion,

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