Okay, here’s a pop quiz...
What do James Bond...
Lieutenant-Colonel Frank Slade (Al Pacino’s character from “The Scent Of A Woman”)...
Christian Grey from the blockbuster erotic novel “50 Shades of Grey”...
Quagmire from “Family Guy”...
and Booger from “Revenge Of The Nerds”...
All have in common??
The answer is that they all end up screwing hot chicks.
What you probably don’t know is why women are so attracted to these men.
And yeah, I know, they’re fictional characters, but the writers (and all of the rest of us) also recognize these types of characters from our own lives... who always end up getting laid
As men, we understand why 007 is getting some: He’s macho, he’s handsome, he’s deadly, he’s the baddest bad boy in town...
He’s the guy that makes sense to us, and he’s also exactly the kind of stereotype character that confuses men about what actually gets women irresistibly turned on...
We can make sense out of Lt. Colonel Slade too, because even though he’s elderly, blind, walks with a limp, and nearly has Tourette's syndrome with his bursts of “HOO-HA!” ...hey, he’s still Al Pacino!
The douche-bag sadist Christian Grey is a little more frustrating, because we all know that in actual real-life, millions of women masturbate over just the idea of him... and if you’re a man and read even a few pages of this crap, it might make you swear off women for life...
It’s literally that idiotic
And then we get to Quagmire and Booger…
I had a friend in high school just like Booger and you probably did too, and it used to drive me crazy that THIS GUY was getting girls when I wasn’t!
What these guys actually have in common is that they OBJECTIFY women.
Yes, you heard that right: They treat women like sex objects!
Which, of course, is exactly what every woman on Earth, from your mom, to your best female friend, to the woman in your own bed will tell you to NEVER do.
And, if you do this wrong way (and you may have already experienced this), you could get yelled at for being a creep, or even slapped in the face.
But it doesn’t matter. Time and time again, beautiful women choose this type of guy for sex over all other options.
Even though these same women truly believe they don’t want to be “objectified” (and most of the time they actually don’t)…
They still end up in bed with men like this. Especially for a short, purely sexual fling.
And for good reason. It’s hard-wired into their DNA to respond this way.
And that’s great news—especially for men like you and me...
Because you don’t have to turn into some sort of “alpha male”... act like a jerk...or become a drooling douche-bag to make it work for you.
I teach a technique that I like to call “enlightened objectification”, and it actually works best for good men who want to crank up the passion and desire in a relationship.
What’s more, this secret works on any woman. It doesn’t matter if you just met... if you’ve been married for 30 years...or if you’re “just friends”
When you know this secret, she’ll feel an intense — and irresistible—wave of sexual desire whenever you want her to.
In fact, in the right hands, the Enlightened Objectification technique can supercharge a woman’s sex drive almost instantly... and even turn a cold, distant woman into your naughty little girl
Now my client Mark had a common—and frustrating—problem.
He and his wife Jennifer were crazy about each other. They both loved sex (in fact, they even took a bunch of Tantra sex classes together).
Mark learned how to give Jennifer prolonged, intense orgasms that left her extremely satisfied.
Sounds great, right? But there was just one problem.
Even though Jennifer loved Mark…
and even though he was a loving and supportive husband...
and even though he had what anyone would call “high-level bedroom skills”...
She was losing her attraction to him.
In fact, she actually talked to him about having an open marriage so she could sleep with other men.
Can you imagine how painful it is to have your wife ask you for that when you are doing everything you can to satisfy her?
You see, Jennifer constantly fantasized about an old boyfriend—a total douche-bag who treated her exactly like a sex object and would simply throw her down and fuck her whenever he felt like it...
But here’s where it gets crazy my friend…
She told me that she almost never had an orgasm during these intense sexual encounters. She said he always finished too quickly and didn’t know the first thing about how to pleasure a woman…
And yet just thinking about him made her wet with desire.
As Jennifer finally came clean in our session together, she started to cry.
She felt guilty and ashamed about her secret desire to be dominated and used like that. She felt like there was something wrong with her.
But she had no choice. This stuff really is hard-wired into human DNA
Honestly, even before she told me this story I understood the real problem. I could tell just from the way that Mark talked about her that this was the missing piece.
In our next session over the telephone, I taught Mark the “Enlightened Objectification” technique…
He resisted the idea at first and thought I was crazy. He didn’t want to do something that he thought would disrespect his wife... but once he tried it everything changed overnight.
In our final call, Jennifer told me that she felt a level of sexual fulfillment she never imagined possible.
Even she didn’t realize what it was that she had been wanting from her husband... and so she had never been capable of explaining it to him…
…And now she experienced even more intense orgasms from Mark’s advanced skills as a lover...
...and they created the kind of intense, deeply connected, passionate relationship (and sex life) most couples can only dream about.
All because Mark discovered the power of this simple attraction secret.
Now there’s one more relationship tactic I’d like to tell you about today. And it may be the most powerful of them all when it comes to making passion last for a lifetime, and make love deepen over time
